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The Gender Cake

July 2, 2010

So, it’s official. CD and I are having a…


and to celebrate, we had a cookout at my mom’s house last night. I brought the cake. πŸ™‚

First I used my butternut squash fudge recipe to make the cake layers…


Simply mix one can of pureed butternut squash with 1 box of brownie mix. Then spoon the brownie mix into two round cake pans and bake in a 350Β° oven for 35 minutes. One of my friends taught me to always cut out a round piece of wax paper and stick it to the bottom of the cake pan with a bit of butter (or coconut oil) to keep your cake from sticking to the pan. Works great!


Next up, I thawed out my favorite Coconut Milk ice-cream for about 10 minutes and then used a little over 1/2 of the pint as the cake filling. I then frosted the entire cake with TruWhip and used dark chocolate chunks for the topping. CD dared me to make a gender specific design…I totally could have managed a chocolate chip penis, but a chocolate chip vagina proved to be too much of a challenge. So, I simply went with Girl. πŸ˜‰


We dined on spinach salads with buffalo ranch grass fed burgers (add 2 TBSP wing sauce and 1/2 packet ranch seasoning to 1lb beef – thanks for the inspiration J. Bean!)…


and lots of cake…


Thanks to everyone for your kind words and encouragement thus far, and many thanks to my family for celebrating with us last night. CD and I couldn’t be more excited!


Oh, and yes, we have a name picked out, but it’s a secret. πŸ™‚

209 Comments leave one →
  1. Kathryn permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:37 am

    congrats!!! so happy for you guys!

  2. July 2, 2010 6:37 am

    How exciting! Congrats to you both. πŸ™‚

  3. July 2, 2010 6:38 am

    Woohoo! Congratulations!

  4. July 2, 2010 6:40 am

    Congrats on your baby girl! πŸ™‚

  5. July 2, 2010 6:41 am

    Congratulations! I think I can guess the name; it must be Heabletta! right?

  6. Sarah R permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:42 am

    Awe πŸ™‚ A little girl! So happy for you two πŸ™‚

  7. Gina G permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:42 am

    aww Congrats to both of you!! =D

  8. July 2, 2010 6:44 am

    I’m just as excited as when I saw it on FB!! Congrats πŸ˜€

    I work at Macy’s and have to walk by the little girl’s clothes every day and most of the time I have to stop and gush at how cute the little outfits are. I’m always looking for an excuse to buy baby clothes (without having my own…)

    Is there any way I could get your address so I can send you a baby outfit?? Seriously, I love this kind of stuff πŸ˜€

  9. July 2, 2010 6:45 am

    hurray! congratulations on the HEABlette πŸ˜‰

  10. July 2, 2010 6:45 am

    Congratulations on having a GIRL! So many cute headbands and dresses and PINK to buy πŸ™‚

  11. *Andrea* permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:46 am

    CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! baby girl heab is going to be BEAUTIFUL! and i bet she will grow up eating the best foods πŸ™‚

  12. July 2, 2010 6:47 am

    A GIRL!!!! CONGRATS!!! πŸ™‚

  13. July 2, 2010 6:48 am

    That is SO awesome Heather!! And I still think HEABlet is the best name ever anyways… that’s who she will always be to me!! Your cake looks SO delish! I’m SO trying that! I have a Trader’s Joe’s brownie mix just waiting to be made just like that!! Awesome!!

  14. July 2, 2010 6:48 am

    Oh congratulations! I am so happy for you!!! πŸ™‚

  15. July 2, 2010 6:51 am

    awww congrats!

    maybe mini ladybugbeauty can marry heablet!

  16. July 2, 2010 6:51 am

    Congratulations on your baby girl! That cake looks delicious!

  17. July 2, 2010 6:51 am

    Oh boy! I mean girl! πŸ˜‰ You can just plan on watching CD turn into PAPA BEAR overnight once little Heablet is born πŸ˜€
    My hubby was about ready to kick an old lady’s butt at the farmer’s market the other day for scolding our 6 year old! He was livid! She had out sample pretzels and our daughter took 2 instead of one, and this OLD lady went off.
    The whole way home he was mumblin’ under his breath! It was kind of amusing.
    anyway! CONGRATS on finding out the gender! πŸ˜€

  18. Allison permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:52 am

    Awww, that’s awesome! I would imagine a chocolate chip vagina would be hard to construct:)

  19. July 2, 2010 6:52 am

    Congratulations! And your cake looks beautiful – love the flowers! It makes me want a Hawaiian vacation in the worst way! πŸ™‚

  20. July 2, 2010 6:54 am

    Congratulations!!!! You and CD look so happy πŸ™‚ I’m so excited for you!

  21. July 2, 2010 6:54 am


  22. July 2, 2010 6:55 am

    I KNEW IT!!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ™‚ Oh how exciting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! πŸ™‚ You would be a good mama to a girl or a boy, but I just so see you with a girl – at least for your first!! πŸ™‚ Awww, she’s gonna be so pretty and sweet just like her mama!!

  23. July 2, 2010 6:57 am

    Luckiest little girl on the way! πŸ˜€

  24. July 2, 2010 6:58 am

    Yay!!! How exciting to be having a baby girl! Congratulations again!

  25. Talia permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:00 am

    WHOO HOO! CONGRATULATIONS! I’m so happy for you!!!! πŸ™‚

  26. kristy permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:00 am

    Congratulations!!! Girls rule, boys drool haha πŸ™‚ I tried the brownies with a can of pumpkin…OMG!!! They are so good they are replacing my almond banana nut muffins as my regular treat! Oh, and you know we’re all dying to know the name πŸ™‚

  27. dmcgirl37 permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:01 am

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!! You must be bursting with job!! I’m so happy for you…
    Enjoy this wonderful day Heather πŸ™‚

    Dana xo

  28. July 2, 2010 7:01 am

    That cake looks delicious! What a creative and yummy idea to share your baby’s gender :-).

  29. July 2, 2010 7:01 am

    Everything about this post is cute beyond words!!!

  30. Sarah permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:02 am

    Heather! Oh my goodness this is so exciting! Just curious- what made you decide to find out now rather than waiting until the big day?!
    And you and CD are just the most beautiful couple ever. Seriously. He looks so happy he almost looks crazy in one of those pictures ;).

  31. July 2, 2010 7:06 am

    Ahh!!! So exciting!! πŸ˜€ So happy for you both:)

  32. Stephanie permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:09 am

    Congratulations on your baby girl. You look so beautiful…..positively glowing πŸ™‚ Love the cake too!

  33. July 2, 2010 7:09 am

    Look at you two! you’re both absolutely glowing! I’m so excited for you. Congratulations on having a baby girl. The cake looks delicious though I totally would’ve loved to have seen how a vagina cake would’ve turned out ha-ha

  34. July 2, 2010 7:09 am

    A Girl! Congrats. You must be so happy.

  35. July 2, 2010 7:10 am

    Oh… a girl! That’s so exciting!

    And that cake looks delicious. I’m think I’m going to have to attempt that butternut squash-brownie mix combo. So easy.

  36. gina (fitnessista) permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:11 am

    i totally thought it would be a girl- now i can start shopping for heablet dresses πŸ™‚
    as much as i would have liked to see a chocolate va-jay-jay cake, it still turned out lovely. hahah
    congratulations again!!
    love you ❀

  37. Susannah permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:12 am

    Congratulations! The cake looks amazing, as does the burger. I can’t wait to try both!!

  38. Dawn permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:12 am

    what great news!!! congratulations!!
    and how did you get the ice cream to stay solid in that cake?


  39. Little Bookworm permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:15 am

    Congratulations on having a girl! The cake looks (and sounds) amazing. πŸ˜€ (Oh and thanks for the chocado sauce recipe – it’s great!)

  40. July 2, 2010 7:17 am

    Congrats! Little girls are the best!

    I have heard of replacing oil and eggs with the pumpkin but never squash–enlighten me. Any advantage to using squash instead of pumpkin?

  41. julie permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:18 am


  42. July 2, 2010 7:19 am

    Congrats! That’s so exciting πŸ™‚ A friend of mine just had a baby girl a few weeks ago and named her Clementine! What do you think?

  43. July 2, 2010 7:23 am

    HEABlet is a giiiirrrlll…HEABlet is a giiiirrrllll πŸ˜‰ Soooo excited for you! πŸ™‚

  44. July 2, 2010 7:25 am

    I KNEW IT!!!!!!!

  45. Kayla permalink
    July 2, 2010 7:27 am

    YAY!!! congrats Heather!!

  46. July 2, 2010 7:28 am

    Yay!!!!!! Congrats!!! Girls are wonderful! πŸ™‚

  47. July 2, 2010 7:29 am

    Congratulations!!!! I’m so happy for you and so excited to read about this journey. You’re going to be an amazing mother!

  48. July 2, 2010 7:29 am

    CONGRATS HEAB AND CD!!! How exciting!!

  49. July 2, 2010 7:38 am

    When I saw this on FB last night I literally whooped for joy! (I would have done the same if it were a boy – it’s just so fun to be a part of the fun either way!) Congrats to you and CD – your little girl will be beautiful, strong and smart, just like her mama!

  50. July 2, 2010 7:42 am

    Congratulations! So happy to hear the news about your little ray of sunshine!

  51. July 2, 2010 7:42 am

    Girls are best. But I might be biased since I only have sisters and they pretty much rock.

  52. July 2, 2010 7:43 am

    I have read your blog every day for about a couple months now but never commented.
    I just want to say congrats on the pregnancy and finding out it’s a girl. When I found out I was having a girl 2 years ago even though I thought it wouldn’t change anything it felt sort of nice to shop for girl specific things.

  53. July 2, 2010 7:48 am

    Aww yay! I’m so glad you guys know what you’re having now! That’s awesome! πŸ˜€

    I thought about you last night as we had chicken liver pate bruschetta out at dinner! I still haven’t had your version you sent me because I’m trying to find good chicken livers here in Indy but it’s still on my radar!

  54. July 2, 2010 7:53 am


  55. July 2, 2010 7:56 am

    Oh my goodness, CONGRATS, mama to be! I am so excited for you both. πŸ™‚

  56. July 2, 2010 7:58 am

    A chocolate chip vagina? Hilarious!
    Congrats on your little girl!!!

  57. July 2, 2010 8:01 am

    Congrats! I’m expecting a girl, as well. Exciting times!

  58. July 2, 2010 8:04 am

    She’s going to be a darling HeabLETTE πŸ™‚

  59. July 2, 2010 8:05 am

    Congratulations!!!! How adorable!!!!!!!

  60. July 2, 2010 8:19 am


    congratulations, heather! so exciting for you guys.

  61. July 2, 2010 8:19 am

    HOW EXCITING!!!!!! You and CD are going to be such phenomenal parents to that babygirl πŸ™‚

  62. July 2, 2010 8:19 am

    Congrats, HEAB and CD! So exciting… can’t wait to see your little girl in a few months. Also, I’m a bit bummed that you didn’t get the opportunity to make a genitalia shaped cake hahahahah….

  63. July 2, 2010 8:21 am

    Congratulations!!!! That’s so exciting! And I think I’m going to try that butternut squash trick!

  64. July 2, 2010 8:22 am


    She is going to be the most beautiful baby girl ever!! I cant wait to hear what her name will be when she is born!! I bet its beautiful!!

    The cake looks so good! I am craving some cake now!!!!!!

  65. nikkionlunch permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:31 am

    YAY!!!! Congrats to both of you!!

    Too bad you couldn’t work out the gender graphics on the cake! πŸ˜‰ It looks delicious, btw. I might try making it for our 4th party!

  66. DiningAndDishing permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:36 am

    CONGRATS!!!! Too exciting :).

    – Beth @

  67. July 2, 2010 8:43 am

    Yay for cake and yay for little girls!! Aww, I’m so excited for you all. Congratulations!

  68. July 2, 2010 8:46 am

    Evan, Good guess. πŸ™‚

  69. July 2, 2010 8:47 am

    Haha – thanks so much Lorne…and ya never know!!! πŸ˜‰

  70. Felicia permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:48 am

    congrats!!! you will be such amazing parents πŸ™‚

  71. July 2, 2010 8:48 am

    Heather, That is so cute…sounds like she’s definitely daddy’s little girl. πŸ™‚

  72. July 2, 2010 8:49 am

    Allison, You have no idea. πŸ˜‰

  73. July 2, 2010 8:50 am

    Thanks so much Em! When do you find out? Ahh, I can’t wait to hear your news! πŸ™‚

  74. July 2, 2010 8:51 am

    Kristy, I have yet to try the recipe with a can of pumpkin – where did you find some? I bet it is delicious – more mild of a flavor than the butternut. Oh, and the name…I’ll never tell. πŸ˜‰

  75. July 2, 2010 8:51 am


  76. Lori permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:52 am

    Congratulations! How exciting for you and CD. You are going to be such great parents!!

  77. July 2, 2010 8:52 am

    YEAH!!!! I was secretly hoping you were having a girl!! Congrats, Heather, I’m so happy for you.

    I made brownies with Bob’s Red Mill GF mix using your method last night for a potluck lunch today. I hope everyone likes them as much as I did last night! πŸ™‚

  78. July 2, 2010 8:53 am

    Sarah, Haha – CD is definitely NOT the crazy one these days…that’s all me. πŸ™‚

    I don’t know – we talked about waiting to be surprised as I didn’t care to do a gender specific nursery or anything, but then CD decided he wanted to know which made me want to know. So, we found out. So excited!!!

  79. Melissa R permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:55 am

    Yeah!!! Girls Rule !!! So happy for you guys! Prepare to fall head over heels in love πŸ™‚

  80. July 2, 2010 8:56 am

    Dawn, I refrigerated the cake layers overnight, and as soon as I spread the ice-cream and TruWhip on, I stuck it back in the freezer. It stayed together perfectly!

  81. rachael permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:56 am

    Yay!!! Love how you told your families with a cake.

  82. July 2, 2010 8:59 am

    Congratulations!! So exciting and the cake looks so yummy…

  83. Claire permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:59 am

    That’s fabulous!! My brother has 4 girls and they are the loves of my life!What a blessing:-)cc

  84. July 2, 2010 9:00 am

    Beth, So exciting – yes, indeed!!! πŸ™‚

  85. July 2, 2010 9:01 am

    AHHH! Congrats! πŸ™‚ That is so exciting!

  86. July 2, 2010 9:06 am

    Sandra, Thanks so much and thanks for reading. I felt the same way about finding out, but now that I think about it, I’m looking forward to shopping for cute little girly things. πŸ™‚ Ha, kind of ironic though since I was a total tomboy and refused to ever wear a dress…my poor mama!

  87. July 2, 2010 9:06 am

    Thanks Charlotte. πŸ™‚

  88. July 2, 2010 9:08 am

    Annecalista, I think Clementine sounds adorable! Congrats to your friend. πŸ™‚

  89. July 2, 2010 9:10 am

    wow that cake looks scrumptious!!

    CONGRATS!! you both look so happy!!! πŸ™‚

  90. July 2, 2010 9:10 am

    Congrats! You two are going to be awesome parents!

  91. July 2, 2010 9:10 am

    Jennifer, Yes, the recipe is normally made with pumpkin. I’m thinking it would probably taste better as the pumpkin is milder than the butternut. However, when I made my first batch, there was no pumpkin to be found, and so I used butternut instead. I love it…but I’m thinking most people out there would probably prefer the pumpkin. That being said, my family loved my version, but keep in mind it was loaded with chocolate ice-cream and whipped cream. πŸ˜‰

  92. July 2, 2010 9:23 am

    I’m new to your site, but congratulations!! It must be a very exciting time for you!

    I love the cake and the recipe. I imagine the recipe could also be used for regular brownies, right? Sounds healthy and delicious! I might just have to try it soon!

    Congrats again!

  93. July 2, 2010 9:26 am

    Lisa, Welcome. πŸ™‚ Thanks for reading, and yes, I usually just make one pan of brownies with the recipe. It originally called for a can of pumpkin, but I couldn’t find any. So, I subbed squash, and I love it!

  94. July 2, 2010 9:36 am

    Congrats! That’s so awesome. My first was a girl and she is so much fun!

  95. Bridget permalink
    July 2, 2010 9:40 am

    Congrats! I’m so happy for you two – and I love the idea of the butternut sqaush fudge in the cake. Your little girl will be so lucky to have such nice parents!

  96. July 2, 2010 9:41 am

    CONGRATULATIONS! Can’t wait to hear the name you’d decided!!

  97. July 2, 2010 9:50 am

    Congrats on the little girl! πŸ™‚ The cake sounds delicious!

  98. July 2, 2010 9:50 am

    congratulations!!! i can see the happiness in your faces. you two will be fabulous parents!

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  100. July 2, 2010 9:55 am

    awhhhh congrats on the little baby girl heablet!! πŸ™‚

    your cake lots delicious! πŸ™‚

  101. July 2, 2010 10:06 am

    Congratulations! That cake looks divine πŸ™‚

  102. Tracey permalink
    July 2, 2010 10:10 am

    Congratulations! I’m so thrilled for you!
    I always use the brownie mix with canned pumpkin recipe and everyone loves it. I’ll have to try it as a cake with the ice cream filling!

  103. July 2, 2010 10:11 am

    What lovely news!!! that’s fantastic! i can just see you with a little girl now! i personally have heard Laura is a lovely name πŸ˜‰ ..

    the cake also looks amazeeee of course………i’d have liked to see how you woulda created that choc chip vagina though!


  104. LeanGreenLiving permalink
    July 2, 2010 10:13 am


    Also, cutest cake EVER. Where did you get those little chocolate squares?

  105. Courtney permalink
    July 2, 2010 10:19 am

    Congratulations!!! Can’t wait to meet the Little Miss πŸ™‚

  106. July 2, 2010 10:33 am

    CONGRATS! that is so exciting! enjoy basking in the news this weekend πŸ™‚

  107. July 2, 2010 10:35 am

    OH yea! Another little girl heablet! Adorable. What a wonderful time celebrating!

  108. July 2, 2010 10:44 am

    Yay! Congrats! So much fun. πŸ™‚ Ps…that cake looks wonderful! I think I might be trying it out. πŸ™‚

  109. July 2, 2010 10:45 am

    Awwwww – yay!! So happy for you! I have a daughter too, and she is just the best. Of course, I know I’d feel the same way if she’d been a he, but whatever. πŸ™‚ Are you excited about pink? I was NOT and told people not to get me any pink stuff … until right before she was born. Then (and now) I wanted lots of pink stuff – I guess to celebrate how excited I was that she was a girl. Not frilly, but pink. πŸ™‚

    What a creative and fun way to share the news! With my fam, when we found it was a girl, I got a couple of these little glass jars at Ikea and filled them with a mixture of sugar, cinnamon and nutmeg. That was their clue. A few just could not figure it out, so we told them to open the jar and hidden inside was a hint, “Sugar and spice and everything nice…” πŸ™‚ I love hearing how people share their news.

    We knew for a loooong time that ours would be Naomi but we kept it a surprise until she was born. That bugged some people but we were glad we did. πŸ™‚ Looking forward to hearing what your girl’s name is eventually. Will you post any ultrasound pictures?

  110. Pearl permalink
    July 2, 2010 10:52 am

    CONGRATULATIONS! Your daughter will be absolutely gorgeous and you two will be amaaaazing parents!

  111. Ginny permalink
    July 2, 2010 10:53 am

    Congratulations! A girl – that’s awesome! Thanks for all of the inspiration!

  112. July 2, 2010 10:59 am

    Oh how exciting!! Girls are so much fun. I love having my little girl. Very happy for you. πŸ™‚

  113. July 2, 2010 10:59 am

    A girl! How fun. And by the by, I made pumpkin-brownies for the first time this week, and I’m in love with them! That cake you made sounds amazing.

  114. July 2, 2010 11:02 am

    Amazing news!!!! Congrats!! You can tell you are both bursting with excitement!! I will take the cake please πŸ™‚

  115. Lynn permalink
    July 2, 2010 11:10 am

    Heather, I know you have a TON of comments on here so I will keep it short and sweet but know that I mean it from my heart:)
    Congratulations! I am so excited you guys are having a girl. Enjoy every moment of your pregnancy(as much as possible anyway). I found it to be an absolutely magical time of my life. Amazing things are happening in your body. I just might be preggers right now and would definitely adore a baby girl to go with my rotten boy-toddler :):):) No matter how challenging the challenges are, they are so worth it.

  116. July 2, 2010 11:20 am

    Congrats! Pretty cake although a chocolate chip vagina would be pretty cool too.

  117. hayleycepeda permalink
    July 2, 2010 11:25 am

    I can’t stop smiling!!!! I’m so excited for you guys! πŸ™‚ That cake looks sooooo good…I want to eat my computer screen..

  118. July 2, 2010 11:29 am

    Congratulations. And the cake looks great πŸ™‚

  119. Julisa permalink
    July 2, 2010 11:31 am

    Congrats, you guys are going to be great parents! The HEABlet will be the belle of the lunchroom with a mom that cooks cakes like that.

  120. July 2, 2010 11:38 am


  121. July 2, 2010 11:42 am

    Congratulations, HEAB and CD! Your little girl will be very lucky to have such wonderful parents! πŸ™‚

  122. July 2, 2010 11:43 am

    awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww! Congrats! VERY exciting. I made brownies with pumpkin a couple weeks ago and they were amazing. Totally turning them into a cake (as you did)! What a fabulous idea. Enjoy the 4th. We will be staying here…but we’re definitely getting together next time we’re in Nashville

  123. July 2, 2010 11:45 am

    SO excited that the little Heablet is a girl! And she will have almond butter, wherever she goes…. πŸ™‚

    Gotta try the squash/pumpkin trick the next time I make a cake. Yummm. Cake.

  124. July 2, 2010 12:01 pm

    Yay! Congrats to you and CD on your baby girl! As the youngest of 3 girls and with 3 nieces, I’m all about the girls. πŸ™‚

  125. July 2, 2010 12:06 pm

    YEAH!!! I am so excited for you. Of course – I have a girl too – and you will have so much fun. K is my little shadow – and while of course you would LOVE a boy too – the girls are so special and fun. Mine of course – is super girly – but YEAH. so psyched. so many congratulations – and good for you on holding tight w/ the name. NO ONE knew K’s name until she was ready to greet the world – full attitude and all.

  126. July 2, 2010 12:07 pm

    Girls rule! I know she’ll have such a great role model in you heather! can you give us a hint about the name??

  127. July 2, 2010 12:15 pm

    AHHH! πŸ˜€ Congratulations!!! You should put some sonogram pictures up, if you can!

  128. RenΓ©e permalink
    July 2, 2010 12:17 pm

    My sister finds out the sex of hers next week!

  129. July 2, 2010 12:18 pm


  130. July 2, 2010 12:24 pm

    I knew it! Congrats! I am kinda partial to little girls. And the name, I know if you have it picked out this early, that it totally spoke to you…and that it was so obvious for you…and that it will be beautiful.

    CONGRATS!!! The two of you are glowing in these pics πŸ™‚


  131. July 2, 2010 12:43 pm

    What a smart-sounding cake…butternut squash fudge MM…just curious, can you taste the squash (I hope so!) Congratss!!! Girls are the best, everyone knows.

  132. July 2, 2010 12:47 pm

    congrats!! can’t wait to “meet” the heablet!

  133. July 2, 2010 12:52 pm

    Little girls are so great. Congratulations!

  134. Luna permalink
    July 2, 2010 1:11 pm

    congrats!!!!una bella bimba!!

  135. July 2, 2010 1:14 pm

    Awww, a little almond butter princess! πŸ˜‰ haha. Congratulations, guys!

  136. July 2, 2010 1:15 pm

    LeanGreenLiving, Those chocolate squares are the 365 brand dark chocolate chunks from Whole Foods.

  137. July 2, 2010 1:16 pm

    Caroline, You can sort of taste the squash, but I love it. The original recipe calls for canned pumpkin which probably wouldn’t be as noticeable. It’s the yummy.

  138. July 2, 2010 1:17 pm

    Renee, Congrats to your sister! πŸ™‚

  139. July 2, 2010 1:18 pm

    Taylor, I thought about it, but then decided our little girl might not like her butt put on the Internet. πŸ˜‰

  140. July 2, 2010 1:19 pm

    Edenseats, Nope, mum’s the word. πŸ˜‰

  141. July 2, 2010 1:20 pm

    Erica, So sad you guys can’t make it, but I look forward to seeing you on your next visit. I’ll eat some Sweet CeCe’s this weekend in your honor. πŸ™‚

  142. July 2, 2010 1:20 pm

    heather, congratulations on finding out that the HEABlet is a girl! how exciting! i can’t wait to see your belly grow and her beautiful face when she comes into this world.

  143. July 2, 2010 1:21 pm

    Thanks Lynn! πŸ™‚

  144. July 2, 2010 1:24 pm

    Katie, Your comment made me laugh as I am totally against the pink right now too! No pink nursery or anything, but I wouldn’t mind some pink outfits…but no, definitely nothing frilly as I’ve never been a frilly girl myself! πŸ™‚

    Yeah, my family is giving me a hard time about keeping the name secret, but I’m not telling! I thought about posting the ultrasound pics, but then I thought against it. Didn’t want to embarrass the HEABlet. Hehe.

    I loved the Sugar and Spice jars – so creative! πŸ™‚

  145. Michelle permalink
    July 2, 2010 1:39 pm

    awwwww. congratulations on the baby girl. Little girls are special. I’m sure little boys are too but I only have a girl.

  146. July 2, 2010 1:43 pm

    Congrats on having a girl!!!!!!!!!!! x x

  147. July 2, 2010 1:58 pm

    Congrats!!!!! so amazing to hear! little girls are so funn.. you can dress them up in all sorts of cute little dresses =)

    and that cake you made! what a great way to tell your parents! hahahah i definitely laughed out loud when i read about the vagina/penis cake! hahahahah (theres a bakery in san francisco that sells penis cookies!)

  148. July 2, 2010 2:15 pm

    YAY!! I was wondering if you were going to spill that little tidbit to the blog world. Thanks for sharing! Also thanks for not posting a chocolate chip vag…I’m at work and that would just be awkward to explain to anyone looking over my shoulder. πŸ™‚

  149. July 2, 2010 2:15 pm

    I’ve got to say, having little girls is the best. You will be such a good role model for them too. Love you guys!

  150. July 2, 2010 2:28 pm

    Congratulations, Heather!!! She’s going to be such a princess πŸ™‚

  151. Jessica R. permalink
    July 2, 2010 2:36 pm

    Congrats, that is wonderful! Travis and I are so happy for you and Chris!!!!

  152. Jenny R. permalink
    July 2, 2010 2:44 pm

    congrats!! you could have made boobies…little mounds of whipped cream with chocolate chips. cake right?

  153. July 2, 2010 2:47 pm

    Jenny, Good call. Next cake for sure! πŸ™‚

  154. July 2, 2010 3:14 pm

    It’s more fun when you keep the name a secret, I think! πŸ™‚ Plus you don’t want to hear what everyone else thinks of the name. Congratulations! A little girl HEABlet πŸ™‚ with an inspiring mama she’ll want to be just like! Love the cake !

  155. July 2, 2010 3:29 pm

    Awww a little Heather!!! I am SO happy for you! What a cute cake too! Looks and sounds delicious, although anything involving dessert when HEAB makes it usually is πŸ˜‰ You are a culinary QUEEN! As I’ve said before πŸ™‚

    Enjoy your cake and the girl!!

  156. Katherine: What About Summer? permalink
    July 2, 2010 3:34 pm

    Congrats! I’m so excited for the mini-heather. You’re going to be awesome parents (hello, look at the cakes she’s going to have!)

  157. July 2, 2010 3:34 pm

    I love daddy daughter relationships πŸ™‚ I’m so happy for you both.

  158. July 2, 2010 3:59 pm

    congratulations!! Such an exciting time. Love how you broke the news with a cake:)

  159. July 2, 2010 4:27 pm

    Congrats!!! Any names picked out?

  160. July 2, 2010 4:31 pm

    It’s a girl!!! Happy tears. So excited for you. She is gonna be GORGEOUS. I love the cake idea…I might have to steal that when the time comes (8 weeks away-feels like a lifetime). Lots of Love!

  161. July 2, 2010 4:32 pm

    ah!!!! congrats!!! so exciting!!!

  162. July 2, 2010 4:48 pm

    Graygrrrl, Thanks so much. Yes, we have a name, but we’re keeping it a secret. πŸ™‚

  163. July 2, 2010 4:49 pm

    Mandy, Can’t wait to hear YOUR news, and do the cake. My family loved it! πŸ™‚

  164. July 2, 2010 4:51 pm

    thats probably the sweetest and most fulfilling cake you’ll ever enjoy! WOW! its official πŸ˜‰ ❀

    i hope the little one loved that cake just as much as you and CD hehe πŸ™‚

  165. July 2, 2010 5:05 pm

    Heather, CONGRATULATIONS! I am so excited for you. You are going to be such a good mom and the HEABlet is going to be so spoiled by your homemade treats. I love it!

    Oh, and that cake looks divine.

  166. July 2, 2010 5:56 pm


    And you guessed before it would be a girl – because of your cravings haha! πŸ™‚

    I LOVE the cake – huge slices necessary.

    I just had some myself after a burger too and egg salad and more…felt sick the whole time eating it though – not hungry at all – and just so stressed…I wish I just had listened to my body instead of scarfing it down and finishing my plate “just because”…

    God, I treat my body so horribly…

  167. marshell y. Roper permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:19 pm

    Its a girl! Its a girl! Its a girl!!!! I am happy for you & CD!!!!!!!!!!!
    Be blessed~~Shell

  168. July 2, 2010 6:29 pm

    Now that must have been a fun surprise for mom! You two are soooo glowing – congratulations!

  169. Gina permalink
    July 2, 2010 6:40 pm

    Little girls are the best – congrats! I have so much fun with my girl – she is 7 now and we do lots of girly-girl things together. When I was pregnant I was certain I was having a boy – I even referred to the baby as “him” all the time. When she was born and my husband said ‘we have a girl!’ it was quite a shock! But I wouldn’t trade her for the world. I know you’ll enjoy your baby girl as much as I enjoy mine!

  170. July 2, 2010 8:04 pm

    Congrats again to you girl! Yay for girls. Our sister just had a baby girl and we are aunts now. It is crazy. We got to spend the whole morning with our little neice and she is so much fun. Girls are awesome πŸ˜‰ haha

  171. July 2, 2010 8:06 pm

    AHHHH!!!! YAYAYAYYAYAYAYYAYAYYYYY!!!!! I’m so happy for you both!!!!

  172. Jill permalink
    July 2, 2010 8:37 pm

    Congrats on having a girl! Girls are great. (I have 4 girls so maybe I am biased LOL) Hope you are feeling well πŸ™‚

  173. kim permalink
    July 2, 2010 9:04 pm

    Congrats! Im glad my “brownie” receipe I shared with you many months back made a grand appearance. Didnt I tell you a long time ago, I had a hunch, as you had the exact cravings, feelings I did? SO happy for you and CD! Little girls are so much fun! Although I guess I only have my lil girl to compare to! The best is yet to come! Enjoy πŸ˜‰
    I have a few cans of pumpkin hanging out here. 114 degrees outside is where I absolutely refuse to cook anything! Maybe I will send off to you!

  174. Cherie permalink
    July 2, 2010 9:54 pm

    Yay!!!! Congrats….so happy for you guys!

  175. Victoria permalink
    July 2, 2010 11:07 pm

    Congratulations!!!!!! Sooooo happy for you and your hubby!!!! A girl is company for the rest of your life, what a blessing!!!
    Fyi: i am a pediatrician so for the future in case you need a piece of advice… You are more than welcome!!! Enjoy the rest of your pregnancy ;)))

  176. July 2, 2010 11:59 pm


    Congratulation! πŸ™‚
    Keep feeding well the little one! πŸ˜‰

  177. July 3, 2010 12:05 am

    Heather, there isn’t much to say except CONGRATULATIONS! I knew it would be a girl. I know with CERTAINTY that you will be an excellent mother. She is so lucky to have you as a mom. You exude such a sense of nurturing and love. I know this gorgeous little girl will grow up with a sense of unconditional love and belonging! I am so happy for the both of you! It’s time to start vitamixing some pureed preservative/additive free baby food!

  178. July 3, 2010 2:15 am

    Congrats! I know from experience there’s nothing sweeter then a little girl (Maybe I’m a little biased). So happy for both of you, can’t wait to hear the name!

  179. July 3, 2010 4:43 am

    Yay! I love that you’re keeping the name a secret…we did that, and although we took a LOT of crap for it (especially from the mother-in-law), I didn’t cave it. It was so much fun to introduce him on the night he was born, and everyone was so excited to hear his name. It was especially nice because his middle name is after my dad, and he was the first to hear his name.

    When you find out the sex of your baby, people will often tell you that you shouldn’t because there are so few surprises left in the world, but that’s why keeping the name a secret is so much fun!

  180. July 3, 2010 5:27 am

    OOO MAN the lil heablet is gonna be a chocolate lova, awesome!! That is totally my FAVE flavor of Purely Decadent ice cream, Yummm! That is so great you got to spend time with your fam with the happy news πŸ˜€ Have a great 4th, xo!

  181. July 3, 2010 6:12 am

    Congratulations Heather and CD! It is so exciting to find out the sex of the baby!!!!
    I was going to say before that from the shape of your bump I would guess it was a girl… did anyone say that to you?
    I am really happy for you guys, this is going to be one beautiful and lucky baby girl!!
    That slice of cake on your hand in the pic looks so delicious, I love your ideas!!

  182. July 3, 2010 6:22 am

    Congrats Heather! You and CD will make fabulous parents to your baby girl πŸ™‚

  183. July 3, 2010 6:45 am

    Gina, I know I will too! πŸ™‚

  184. July 3, 2010 6:51 am

    Ana, No one commented on the shape of my bump, but everyone said based on my cravings for meat and aversions for all vegetable, that I was having a girl. Guess they were right! πŸ™‚

  185. July 3, 2010 6:55 am

    Wendy, My MIL is fine with us keeping the name hush hush – it’s MY mom that’s giving us a hard time, but I WILL NOT cave either. Can’t wait to introduce her!!! πŸ™‚

  186. July 3, 2010 6:55 am

    Thanks Barbara – luv you! πŸ™‚

  187. July 3, 2010 6:56 am

    Thanks Victoria – I’ll keep that in mind as I’m sure I’ll have lots of questions over the next few years! πŸ™‚

  188. July 3, 2010 6:58 am

    Kim, You called it from the very beginning!!! Try to stay cool, and I hope you guys have a wonderful 4th! My MIL was heading up to Flagstaff to try and escape the heat.

  189. Michelle permalink
    July 3, 2010 8:09 am

    Oh a GIRL! As a mommy to three little girls, trust me, it it FUN!!! Congrats and I am sure you already got this advice but if anyone asks you the name, just say, “We have a short list but are waiting until we meet her to decide on her name” That usually keeps people quiet. πŸ˜‰

    LOVED your healthy ice cream cake too!

    PS – Pregnancy is definitely agreeing with you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You are radiant.

  190. July 3, 2010 8:13 am


  191. July 3, 2010 8:57 am

    Congratulations sweetie! You two are just glowing and I think that is just amazing! I am so happy for your little family! What an exciting adventure!

  192. July 3, 2010 9:37 am

    Thanks Michelle and great advice regarding the name!

  193. July 3, 2010 9:50 am

    Heather, Wow!! That is so great! I had a feeling the HEABlet was a girl πŸ™‚ Yay for you!!


  194. July 3, 2010 11:16 am

    CONGRATS!!! very exciting πŸ™‚

  195. July 3, 2010 3:34 pm

    Thanks for the comment πŸ™‚

    Even though I’ve never commented on your blog.. I’ve actually been reading it for quite some time now! I’ve been super busy, so I am just catching up now and I really wanted to say congratulations on the girl!

    Knowing the gender must be so exciting! Surely she is going to grow up to be one amazing girl having such a prime example.

    Ps. That cake looks devine πŸ™‚
    ❀ Tat

  196. July 3, 2010 5:44 pm

    Definitely LOLed at your cake decorating ideas! CONGRATULATIONS!!

  197. July 3, 2010 6:13 pm

    Aww, congrats on your baby girl! I’m so excited for you. πŸ™‚

  198. July 3, 2010 6:27 pm

    Aw, honey, what joyous news! I have no reservations about admitting that, if I decide to have children, I’d prefer to have girls. (Not that I wouldn’t get psyched either way.) Congrats!

  199. July 4, 2010 8:10 am

    Yay! Yay! Yay!

  200. July 4, 2010 5:38 pm

    best. gender. cake. ever.

    and yayyy could not be more happy for you heather. cannot wait to hear her name! πŸ™‚

  201. July 4, 2010 6:20 pm

    Thanks Beeks! πŸ™‚

  202. July 4, 2010 10:55 pm

    This muffin base is a spectacular idea! I ll definitely try it!
    Also nice scarf πŸ™‚

  203. July 5, 2010 7:21 am

    Efi, Thanks. πŸ™‚

  204. July 5, 2010 11:06 am

    Congratulations on the Heab-lette! Little girls are so sweet. I’m so excited to find out what her name is (I’m obsessed with cool baby names), but good for you for keeping it a secret. There should be some things you get to treasure for a while, just between you and CD. πŸ™‚

  205. July 5, 2010 11:28 am

    Thanks Foodiefresh. πŸ™‚

  206. July 6, 2010 2:23 pm

    Big smile on my face when I saw that cake! Congratulations!!

  207. July 6, 2010 4:32 pm

    Thanks Lauren! πŸ™‚

  208. July 10, 2010 2:41 pm

    EEEEE!!! Congrats!!! I had a feeling it would be a girl. Seriously. I’m not just saying that πŸ˜› That cake looks like the perfect way to celebrate too – SO happy for you two!!

  209. July 10, 2010 2:58 pm

    Thanks Susan! πŸ™‚

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